Are You Ready For This?

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How many times have you heard your friends or people that you didn't know talking about sex? There isn't a day that passes that teenagers don't hear a conversation about sex. So what does this have to do with teen relationships today? Everything! Many teenage couples do not know how to have a relationship that does not involve sexual intercourse.

 

With all the diseases and consequences that come along with having sex, why would any teen want to have sex so early? Well, there are as many answers to that question as there are people to answer it. Some of the most popular answers to that question are curiosity, peer pressure, experimentation, acceptance, popularity and to keep a relationship from falling apart. On the other hand there are also reasons why teens decided not to have sexual relationships, such as a feeling of not being ready for all the consequences and responsibilities that come with a sexual relationship, or wanting to wait until marriage.

So what else is there to do in a relationship besides having sex? Well, try going out to a movie every now and again, spending quality time together, and most importantly; TALKING! Communicate! How could you possibly be considering having sex with someone if you can't hold a decent conversation with him or her? So what do you do if you and your mate are placed in an "awkward position?" Well, try remembering the consequences of sex, you know, the sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy.Try leaving the room for a while to cool off, and always remember, it is mind over matter!

It is really hard for teens not to have a sexual relationship today. So what can you do to keep your relationship from going too far? Well, for one, don't let any outside influences have any bearing on your relationship, don't let your mate pressure you, and always, Always Consider the consequences! And for you teens out there that feel you are ready to have sex or are having sex already, here are some tips on how to keep you safe. Be monogamous. (That means one partner). There are so many forms of protection out there so USE THEM! I'm not saying that waiting until marriage is the best choice, but at least wait until you can handle all of the responsibilities that come with sex. Remember, having an irresponsible sexual relationship can strip you of you "teen hood" and send you flying into adulthood before you are ready whether you like it or not.

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